Wednesday, June 17, 2009

33 years ago...

Thirty-three years ago, in Arlington, Virginia, my mom was 17 days past her due date. She marched into her OB's office and demanded my prompt removal. I was delivered--sometime in the afternoon--via C-section. My mother still bears the zipper-like scar down her belly.

I'm sure she bears other scars too, less visible. After all, it takes becoming a mother to know how difficult it can be to raise children. To instill good behaviors and values. To quell tantrums without losing your cool. To come up with new craft ideas, disciplinary tricks and dinner recipes. While holding down a job or two. And packing up and unpacking a house every three years. To do it every day, all day, until I turned 18 and you said, "Good-bye now. And never come back!"

Thanks, Mom.

Now tell me what it'll take to get you to move to Chicago!

This photo was taken in Bonn, Germany. I'm either 2 1/2 or 3 and my sister is 1. My mom is 31. Nothing makes raising two small, closely spaced kids easier than moving overseas, right?


Updating at 4:20 to include this picture my mom just scanned for me from my 2nd birthday party.

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

Thanks for the appreciation of my mothering on your birthday! I love that picture and remember that time as if it were yesterday. Moving around was probably harder for you kids than for me. I hated leaving friends and jobs and starting all over again, but the prospect of a new adventure for the whole family always trumped my reluctance and fears. Plittersdorf in those days (where the US Embassy housing was located) was a wonderful place to raise toddlers--with an excellent nursery school and "play" school, great playgrounds, a lovely path along the Rhein river, and lots of other young families with kids.--Nanny

Bobbi B. said...

What a beautiful photo! And 17 days past due...wowza!

Happy birthday, Alma!

RookieMom Whitney said...

Happy Birthday, Alma!

I wish the picture was bigger!

Alma said...

You can see the photo full size here:http://tinyurl.com/l9gbkt

caitlin said...

Happy Birthday Alma.

bk said...

Cute pictures! Hope you had a fantastic day.

Anonymous said...

alma- you need to laugh more, love more.